Time Matters

Hello Friends and Family!

I know I have been missing in action since my last surgery and I apologize! It’s been six weeks ago today and I feel almost back to normal. In fact, I am counting the days until I can start working out. After all, I have a new belly button as I described in this blog and need to get everything else shaped up before summer!

Romeo and I are taking a long vacation this summer to our favorite resort, Couples Negril in Jamaica. We were supposed to go over Thanksgiving, but the whole cancer thing sort of fouled up our plans. So, we are REALLY looking forward to relaxing in the sun under the palm trees.

I love this view of the beach at Couples Negril!

I have to admit I have been a little worried that everything might not look “normal” in my swimsuit. Romeo keeps reassuring everything looks fine, but you know, he is a MAN and most males believe all boobs look great. But, in the last couple weeks I have had two doctors tell me they were VERY impressed with Dr. BK’s work. In fact, my Oncologist said it was one of the best reconstructions he has ever seen. Wow – I was really happy to hear that and surprised since he probably sees hundreds!

Now don’t worry, I’m not planning to go crazy and layout on the nude beach while we are in Jamaica. They don’t look THAT good, even though Romeo tries to convince me otherwise. But I am relieved someone outside of my family has given me confidence they look “normal.”

In the last couple weeks I have learned of two ladies (who are friends of my friends in Tulsa) have been diagnosed with breast cancer. Unfortunately, their cancer is more complicated than mine, but thankfully they are both seeking treatment at MD Anderson. Please keep these ladies in your prayers. Melissa is in her late twenties and is 32 weeks pregnant. Vicky is around my age and has a very aggressive stage IV cancer.

Please be aware of your breast health and don’t miss your annual mammogram. Delaying this exam just a couple months could make a huge difference. I was very lucky my cancer was caught early and treated easily, but it could have been a very different story if I had waited. So don’t wait one minute longer, call now if it’s time for your annual exam and remind all your lady friends to do the same!